My Dear I should have known. I should have known before you even came into existence I was going to have to fight for you. There is a 7 year gap between you and your older brother. I took me that long to convince your father he wanted more children. He was a one and… Continue reading My Dear I should have known
I am in the messy middle. My life used to be more of a mess, both literally and figuratively. I have made so much progress. I’ve decluttered mercilessly, I have tuned my diet, my mind. I finally went to both therapy and a dentist. I have made so much progress. But I’m still so far… Continue reading I am in the messy middle
What has my trauma done? My trauma has touched literally every part of my life. It has touched my self esteem, my marriage, my parenting, my friendships, every day actions. It leaves me constantly questioning, am I a good enough mother, daughter, sister, wife, friend, you name it. It has caused me at times to… Continue reading What My Trauma Has Done
One of my big goals for 2020 is to become a financial rockstar. I would be lying if I said it was easy. It hasn’t. I love listening to people like Dave Ramsey and Rachel Cruz, and I’ve heard over and over how money is less about the numbers and more of a heart issue/discipline… Continue reading Quick money update
I will overcome. This is my new battle cry. Sometimes I am pretty sure this life is trying to kill me. Days like today, I feel like it is all I can do to keep my head above water. I am living my dream and my nightmare at the same time, and I feel like… Continue reading I will overcome
2019……What a year it has been. As it comes to an end all I can think is what a ride it has been. This has been one of the best, but also one of the worst years of my life. I found my people. I found the people who make up my tiny village. The… Continue reading 2019
I love to plan. I have a slight obsession with my calendar. So when planning out our monthly activities ( shout out to local libraries being a lifesaver to this mammas budget) I decided maybe it would be a good practical to plan in advance days not to spend any money . I decided Thursdays… Continue reading When your spending freeze fails
I did something that made me really sad… I uninstalled my Dunkin Donuts app. Coffee is one of my weaknesses. I don’t do it every day, and while I love a good latte I buy when they have the $2 afternoon special. But here is the thing, for several reasons I decided I needed to… Continue reading Sometimes being frugal is choosing one thing over another.
I did something that made me really sad… I uninstalled my Dunkin Donuts app. Coffee is one of my weaknesses. I don’t do it every day, and while I love a good latte I buy when they have the $2 afternoon special. But here is the thing, for several reasons I decided I needed to… Continue reading Sometimes being frugal is choosing one thing over another.
Being a mother is hard. I cannot believe I’m saying this but next Monday marks thirteen years of being a mother…. how is that possible? I have been sure on more occasions than not that I have hit my breaking point…. but here I am… still going at it. Fast forward to today, I now… Continue reading When you think you’ve hit your breaking point
